The title of the HN submission doesn't make much sense, considering the material. I was expecting a discussion of pg2 [0] or similar.
The article's title is apropos, because in Erlang parents often kill their children and vice-versa.
This article is largely a copy/paste/reword job from the official erlang docs (http://www.erlang.org/doc/design_principles/gen_server_conce...) too.
What is the recommended way to contain a failure to a single request?
If you search for "So we will create a module named ch3 with gen_server behaviour", you'll see the author's server code. His server code makes use of the gen_server behavior.
To answer your questions:
Yes. If the author's server process crashed, all pending requests would be lost. From what I can tell, gen_servers use the Erlang process mailbox to maintain a queue of (among other things) requests to be serviced. If a process dies, its mailbox is destroyed and its contents lost.
If I were concerned about my code's ability to survive a crash of one of its operations, I would either
* Wrap the operation in a try/catch block that only handled all of the error conditions that I was expecting to encounter.
* Execute the operation in a separate, monitored [0] process that sends a message back with the results of the operation. [1]
Each method has its place, but I would find myself using the child process method most of the time. Defensive coding is a really bad code smell in Erlang programs. Swallowing all exceptions is definitely a very defensive thing to do.
[0] Any process in an Erlang system can monitor any other process in the system and get a notification when the monitored process terminates.
[1] You can even tell your supervisor to start the process for you so that it knows about it and can terminate the child if the supervisor is asked to shutdown.
