But that's what the definition of "selectivity" is for database retrieval. Selectivity == n_rows_selected/n_row_count. The "larger number" was the denominator and the "small number" was the numerator.
Your example SQL is not consistent with your previous sentence:
SELECT TOP 1000 FROM resumes ORDER BY received_date
Notice that nowhere is the total row count for resumes known in your isolated example? So yeah, we don't have the denominator to determine selectivity.For examples of Harvard and Google, we know the denominators (the total applications and total resumes). Therefore we know the selectivity.
I suspect you're mixing up "mathematical selectivity" from "decision process selectivity" because Google's internal decision tree for hiring might look to outsiders as "black box" or nonsensical.