>> In addition to the stability argument, there are also energy requirements. It turns out fusion (stars) only gives energy up to iron, then it requires energy to make bigger atoms.
That's actually a common misunderstanding. If you fuse hydrogen (or even lithium) with iron, you can get a higher numbered element and some excess energy. See the chart on this page:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nuclear_binding_energy
While iron is at the top of the curve, that just means you won't see iron-iron fusion. There really is no reason the lighter (common) elements can't fuse with the heavier elements.
This is also the idea the LENR (low energy nuclear reaction, formerly known as cold-fusion) guys are considering. If you fuse Hydrogen with Nickel62 to produce Coppper63 you could get some energy out. Notice that Nickel is already heavier than Iron. Some claim to have seen this copper production in hydrogen-nickel cells. The claims are not really relevant - the math supports it as a possibility. Weather it can happen on earth or in a star is open for debate. One key question is how the excess energy would get out as heat, and there are ideas about that.
I for one find it amusing that people don't think something like this is where all the naturally existing heavy elements came from.