However, it looks like majority of comments are focusing on the "right" way to deal with a MILF comment. Some members express that it is a zero tolerance offense. Some other members express that something like that should only be a warning and the person given a 2nd chance.
I think it's a productive conversation because even if neither side changed the others' opinions, at least we learned what others' thresholds were. I was surprised to learn that MILF is not disrespectful enough for some folks to terminate the employee. Now I question what others think is within the boundaries of not firing. What about a quick butt grab in the hallway? How about sending a nude to a coworker's phone/email? In any case, the only thing that taints the discussion of this important topic is that it was begun by the soap opera article submission. Some of us ignored that part.
I suspect that some people are unclear of, or have suppressed in favor of the colloquial use, the definition or expanded form of MILF. If you think of it as "very attractive mother and/or mature woman", which I think the meaning has shifted to somewhat over time, then I can see how some people might have differing interpretations for the severity of the remark. That's not to say it's acceptable, it is not, but I can see how someone could be somewhat surprised initially the severity of the negative reaction to their comment, through ignorance or carelessness.
It's less useful here, hanging off this poisonous blog post. Mean dumb things shouldn't get upvotes.
