but that's a false dichotomy
It's a false dichotomy for self-funded/bootstrapped businesses. But if you consider yourself a startup, you have to deliver growth. It's that pressure that leads to the 70+ hour weeks. It's entirely possible to own and run a business while still putting in reasonable hours. But it's unlikely that business is a startup, by Paul Graham's definition of the word.For reference, Paul Graham defines a startup as:
A startup is a company designed to grow fast. Being newly founded does not
in itself make a company a startup. Nor is it necessary for a startup to
work on technology, or take venture funding, or have some sort of "exit."
The only essential thing is growth. Everything else we associate with
startups follows from growth.