> It's tempting to throw every new fancy technology at the problem when that is suddenly an option, but it's better to focus on the goal of splitting it apart only.
Splitting it apart involves:
(1) Dividing the data and functionality into a legacy component and a new-implementation component,
(2) Making changes to the DB and application code for the legacy component,
(3) Implementing the new-implementation component.
In a monolith that you are breaking apart, the reusability of legacy code for the new-implementation component is likely to be low (you'll actually likely have to do extensive changes to the larger "legacy component" as well, but the reusability should be somewhat higher there.)
You have to use some technology for the new implementation component, and what you should aim for is whatever is the best fit for the job, whether it is similar to what existed before or not.
> If you have split it out, and it's now simple to convert to ES CQRS, then you are probably in a situation where you don't need to do that, as it works quite well.
I disagree. The hard part of converting to ES/CQRS for the components that are broken out ("new implementation" components, not the "legacy" reduced-monolith) is done in the analysis phase of what you are breaking out. Once that is done, implementation in a ES/CQRS manner is fairly straightforward, since defining the events that the component will handle is a core part of analysis, as is defining the impacts those events have on stored, reportable data (the query side of CQRS).