>If decentralisation were more efficient than centralisation, systems aiming for efficiency would naturally centralise; this is not what we observe.
I'm going to assume you mixed up your words there. I'd argue that we see lots of decentralization on the web. I don't see why it has to be one or the other, they seem to work fine in a hybrid state.
>the code is controlled by just a few people, the mining is controlled by four miners
Code is available on github and you can fork it. Mining centralization was the result of competition and some ambitious Chinese living next to dams. There is nothing preventing this from changing in the future.
>Bitcoin decentralises things that don't need to be decentralised, wastefully, then naturally recentralises anyway.
I'd say that money should definitely be decentralized.