The whole reason for the UWP sandboxing is to make it so that users can confidently install UWP applications with some assurances that it isn't spyware/malware/blackmailware that will take over their PC or steal their personal information.
UWP is Microsoft's answer to years of criticism they received for the way process permissions work on Windows. They aren't going to just dump it all because you and a few others find the priviledge model inconvenient.
> You can't even send an HTTP request to a little node.js Web server running on your desktop right now.
If your node.js web server was network accessible you could. But, no, it won't allow unchecked IPC as that directly defeats the whole point of sandboxing to begin with.
Personally I haven't used UWP much either, but that has nothing to do with sandboxing and everything to do with poor performance and UI issues (e.g. window controls, built in UI elements, etc). I still find the Windows 10 UWP Calculator horrible to use, it was a MASSIVE downgrade over the old one.