I'm a technical founder, looking for a co-founder. I have no way of assessing other non-technical co-founders, which pretty much limits my options to technical co-founders.
How often are there companies founded by dual technical co-founders? Google comes to mind.
It's going to be awkward talking to VCs while both of us are staring at our shoes.
Being a founder means being a jack of all trades, especially early on. So my advice would be to learn how to do it yourself. It might take you a few trials and errors, but that's ok.
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