I disagree somewhat with this.
We found that when we started writing microservices in languages that are not java, the short startup time changed how we did some error handling.
For errors where we say lose connection to the database, or rabbitmq, we much rather have the nodejs-process die and restart, than try to construct reconnect logic.
The problem with reconnect-logic is that it is code that (may) be tested very rarely. This in turn means it's easy to get strange long term problems there like very slow memory leak due to some listener being added to a connection object once the connection is initiated.
We did a 180 on reconnect-logic in our nodejs-processes and let the exceptions just bubble unhandled and take the entire vm down. With automatic restart script, the process will be back in seconds anyway, and with docker having built in back-off timers for auto restart, we don't necessarily overload the shared resources.