Sorry to interject - but that's not completely true. Go comes with a
separate patent disclaimer.
https://golang.org/PATENTS
And IMHO nodejs is not a standard BSD license and comes with patent grant. That discussion went on for a year in the TSC . https://github.com/nodejs/node/blob/master/LICENSE
In general, this stuff is not always evident. But the BSD license by itself is not as good as Apache.
While in doubt, use Apache !
P.S. fyi, doing this later is super heavy-duty hard.