Mine was basically "In strictly financial terms, you're nuts to sell for $85-100K." Yours was "As a buyer, you're nuts to buy for more than "$85-100K." What's going on economically is that transaction costs will eat up most of any surplus for a business worth < $1M, and so both statements are true.
In practice, the small business owners I know usually just milk their business into the ground. They treat it like an annuity that generates $X of additional income, and if it ceases to become profitable or worth the trouble, they just shut it down.