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0 pointsunabst8y ago0 comments

Exactly. Information is never the cause. It is only the trail. The most information can do -- and is meant to do -- is influence people. Ergo, the bad or good feelings (or decisions, in most cases).

Except, the problem is then the inability of the person with that information to attack those problems.

Anyone with the capacity to do something about those root causes should know everything. For the rest, that information is irrelevant to their job, and distracting at best.

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astura8y ago

Going by that logic you shouldn't tell your spouse if your terminally ill because he or she can't do anything about it and public companies shouldn't be required to release their financials because you can't do anything about it.

djsumdog8y ago

Terminal illness can't really be hidden and does affect your spouse and family.

A better analogy is infidelity. You shouldn't tell a partner if you've been unfaithful because it benefits no one. I think this quite by the Australian author Bettina Arndt says it best:

"That's the amazing thing. So many people end up confessing to an affair, which strikes me as the ultimate stupidity. Sure, you may believe you are confessing all to preserve honesty in your marriage, or because he/she deserved the truth, but the reality is that this 'telling' business is all about people not having the backbone to live with their guilt. Telling doesn't right the wrong; it adds to it."

(The Sex Diaries / Bettina Arndt)

unabstOP8y ago

Actually I did think about that. But that is personal. Jobs are personal too, but they really shouldn't be.

Your spouse isn't paying you to be with them, and you're not doing any "job".

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