That's not what I was talking about. Employees are neither bricks nor cogs. But having said that, if you run any long-term project, you should expect people to come and go, it's part of the game. Thinking that this will not happen in your project is simply negligent.
> This is actually an extremely inefficient and demoralizing environment for those involved.
It doesn't have to be. Working with common conventions and tools doesn't have to be demoralizing. Conventions should be set for a good reason, after an open discussion, and possibly even a vote ("Do you think that it's worth bringing in this library?", "Should we all use the same IDE?"). Also, conventions aren't set in stone, they can change over time.
This gives the team ownership of their project. It makes passing knowledge between team members easier, it makes it easy for team members to help each other when they've run into an issue, not to mention that it makes code reviews and various technical discussions a lot easier.
If Bob is writing using a different language or a set of libraries than the rest of us, who can review Bob's code? Who can help him out when he's stuck on some bug? Who can help him flesh out his design ideas for some feature he's writing?
Without team cohesion, you're creating not a team of developers, but a bunch of individuals who happen to work on related stuff. I don't know about you, but to me that sounds a lot more demoralizing. To me, one of the great benefits of working on a team is that we all get to learn from each other, plus we get to share a common goal. Agreeing to some common conventions seems like a small price to pay for that.