I admire your toughness, or magnanimity, or whatever word I'm looking for. I'm not sure I'd end up with as positive an attitude as you appear to have. That thing you said about trying to get to a place where you can prevent others from being unfairly discriminated against... that says so much about you I think. Even if you never get to that position, you've managed to turn a viciously unfair circumstance into something strong and positive for yourself. Much respect