"So you think we should lock up the children of criminals when the criminal is arrested?"

And this is why I can't take you seriously; you are very clearly not arguing in good faith.

"I wish you could objectively hear what your argument sounds like to someone who's neutral on this issue."

You are very clearly not neutral on this issue. And quite frankly, I don't want to meet someone who's "neutral" on the idea of separating children from their parents, and locking them up.