> I'm going to give up 15 years of my life -- the time that most people spend getting married, having 2.5 kids, etc. to live in SV -- when I could spend those fifteen years living in the burbs in a big house with the white picket fence in almost any other major city in the US?
First of all I'm not "giving it up" and I have no desire for your lifestyle. It honestly sounds horrible.
Enjoy your life.