Even if you view the military as an amoral tool, then it's still immoral to contribute to its strength while it is under immoral control.
> You are responsible for everything that happens and is happening, and if you really believe that the system is so badly broken that we are involved in illegitimate wars then you need to take responsibility for that and stop it. Stop paying your taxes, organize your community against it. Be willing to sacrifice to make it happen
So I'm on board with this ethos, but then the question becomes to do what ?
If you act in a direct violent manner (which includes not rendering unto Caesar), the system attacks and contains you.
If you act in an economic manner (earning less to pay less taxes), you're heading away from the attractor of competition. The end result is living like the Amish, which while individually sustainable, has clearly not caught on.
If you make small actions under the idea they accumulate, then you get stuck in simulations (eg ethical consumption, voting).
If you narrow your focus to one topic, then you end up just fighting your fellow plebs with different priorities (eg SJWs).
I have long thought about this and still have come up with little. Cryptocurrency seemed promising, but then Bitcoin came along and vaccinated the state. With no straightforward answer it sort of feels like you're throwing out a straw man. While I'm all for kicking people to not compromise so readily, everybody compromises constantly. It is nonsensical to pick on someone who has partially compromised as being inconsistent for not having fully compromised. I would rather have them hold on to their ideology and still be looking for new doors.