I'm dubious of this claim. Google/Alphabet has a PPE of ~$150,000. Activision-Blizzard has a PPE of ~$33,000, EA had ~$95,000, and Ubisoft ~$15000. I think the only possible major game studios who could meet your claim are Epic or maybe Valve. Unfortunately, those numbers aren't public. So I'm going to assume you work on Steam, since Epic's new platform is likely too recent to have lots of users, and also I don't think it was competently designed.

(the other thing is that this metric isn't particularly meaningful. Google invests a huge amount in unprofitable things with the goal of profits 5 or 10 years down the line. Google devotes thousands of engineers and billions of dollars to things it knows aren't profitable. That doesn't make Google more or less competent, it just implies different priorities than one that's entirely driven by immediate returns).

>Based on my experience (currently responsible for a huge chunk of a major gaming platform, with hundreds millions users), inflexibility, emotional immaturity, inability to think outside of the box, inability to listen and admit failures, lack of emphaty, not understanding basics of sales(to sell own ideas) are major things that contribute to a bad performance reviews.

All of these are important, but they only become important once you have the baseline level of competence. If you have two equally competent people, then yes indeed the softer skills like flexibility, creativity, humility, and communication skills start to matter, and eventually they matter a lot. But those are only good things if you assume a baseline level of competence.

Consider two options. One is that you screen solely for competence. You get only competent engineers along a wide range of interpersonal/soft skills. Some can grow into leadership roles, some can't (or at least it takes longer). But even the most convincing, best "salesperson" has great engineering talent. Then the alternative: that great salesperson is a bad engineer. The ideas they promote aren't always good ones, sometimes they're bad. That's not just "not good", its actively harmful.

>Our strongest engineers will not pass google interview without preparation (me included) and it is telling.

What does it tell? You seem to be suggesting that Google is optimizing badly, and that's possible. But that is by no means the only conclusion. Here's an alternative: "The most profitable things are not always the most technically challenging". Every once in a while you'll see people on HN commenting about how they wired up a shopify store that provides some significant passive income. That's not challenging. It would take an average engineer a week to do, if that. It's still profitable. But that doesn't make you qualified to work at Google (or Valve).