Real talk...they own my mortgage, i cant just 'forget about it' if they forget about it. I want to refinance it. Of they lose all data on my debt like that ending to Fight Club... is the debt just...gone?
Nope. Liens are recorded with the county/state as part of property law, as well as any other encumbrances. So that would actually probably make your situation worse because the lien holder would have no clue about the debt and claim on the property and could be hell for you to remove even if you kept paying and eventually paid everything off. Could potentially be a nightmarish scenario and an exercise in pure bureaucracy. Probably some Brazil or Catch-22 style shit.