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Instead of "demotivation", you could use "motivation". So that, we wont have to worry about double negatives.
I would prefer to add weights, to the connecting arrows, to give more detail.
Second this. The other thing is that your diagram layout is defined by the 'weight' you want to apply to a relationship. Sometimes adding a new, less influential relationship will require moving every other node.