> However it is inappropriate for an outsider to use an unofficial name or deadname without permission
I dont think its inappropriate, that is how names change over time. Just embrace it, dont fight it.
> Please stop bringing up taxpayer money
Why? Shouldnt you say something if the govt is wasting money on frivolous activities?
> I could say the US taxes shouldn't be spending trillions on military before fixing other problems like homelessness in SF, but that's not how taxes or governments work.
I agree, the US should be spending less on military and more on the welfare of its citizens.