Men are not some robots that us pessimists programmed to turn into all the list of attributes that you just now prescribed when met with so and so situation.

Just because I bought a cat or dog doesn't mean I am going to abuse by feeling entitled and owning it.

With mail order women, women get just the same rights as any other women in marriage. Police would be after me otherwise. It is the responsibility of such women who voluntarily participate as mail order brides to educate themselves of their rights to assert them whenever apposite. Mail order transaction is perfectly legal and has no more abuse risk statistically than other kinds of mainstream marriages.

>It is not like they would be ordering her for any other reason.

Actually plenty said it is like they would be ordering her for other reasons - love, companionship and marriage.

You are again and again drawing premature conclusions like "People who own a kitchen knife are damn sure to be murderers!".

Udik explains it better -https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=19622835