Rain doesn't fall all at once like this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-ZkV64GJihA

The rain falls over an extended period of time, not all at once as one glob. Only several drops are hitting you at any given instant in the rain, so you are only subjected to minuscule amounts of force at any given instant.

The difference would be like standing in the shower for 40 minutes, versus being hit my an entire tub full of water going at the same speed all at once.

I remember during the Khan Academy controversy a few years back, an educator commented on reddit about the difficulty in teaching some kids about rates. Some kids just don't get rates. They think of speed as something like "a feeling of intensity." They just don't have an abstract, generalized understanding of "N things per unit time."

Think about that for a moment. Think about all of the potential for miscommunication.

Generally when it rains you don’t go from nothing to several tons of water all hitting at once.

Because most times when it rains, it's also not on fire.

Rain also doesn't put out major fires by itself.

It's not usually on fire.

Because it doesn't rain tons of water in less than a second.

The rate is different.

Lots of water at once versus less spread over a long time.

Because. It. Is. Rain.