...You've got some balls to lecture others on dishonest argumentation when you can't even honestly tackle the argument as I wrote it.
One can cite or represent a bloody knife for shock value. In such cases, the implication is often clear. I suspect you're either misleading with the shocking implication, thereby having it both ways.
Perhaps I misread your intention. However, your scenarios don't really make sense if one applies the "not a big deal" interpretations. Sure, there are situations where it's not a big deal to post a diary entry. In that case, why would anyone care and why would there be any censorship which would be considered "good?" It doesn't make sense.
So are you suggesting that things you deem as morally reprehensible should be exempt from your "principle of Free Speech?"
There is indeed a problem with speech devoid of principle, meant only to hurt someone. This is understood by the law. The purpose of Free Speech is to let people express grievances or objects with regards to principles. Morally reprehensible speech should be allowed, but it's not the purpose of Free Speech. Some subset of morally reprehensible speech would even be illegal, and therefore it wouldn't be protected as Free Speech.
Again, it's you who brought up the nebulous extreme examples in the first place, with the purpose of having it both ways to justify censorship.