Turing's thesis talks about some system transforming an input to an output. Clearly, a TM could simulate the actor itself in your proof. If it is not able to simulate the entire actor-collaborator system, that's only because you may have given the collaborator (whatever it is that generates the messages) super-Turing powers. You assumed that there could be something that could issue a `stop` after an arbitrary number of `go`'s, but you haven't established that such a mechanism could actually exist, and that's where the super-Turing computation actually hides: in a collaborator whose existence you have not established. As you have not established the existence of the collaborator, you have not established the existence of your actor-collaborator system. I claim that a TM cannot simulate it simply because it cannot exist (not as you describe it, at least).

So here's another "proof": The actor machine takes two messages, Q and A(Bool), and it gets them alternately, always Q followed by A. Every time it gets a Q, it increments a counter (initialized to zero) by 1 to the value N, and emits a string corresponding to the Nth Turing machine. It then gets a message A containing a value telling it whether the Nth TM terminates on an empty tape, and in response it emits A's argument back. And here you have an actor machine that decides halting!