This “I don’t need a car to commute from SF to SF therefore nobody anywhere needs a car for any reason” attitude pops up at least twice a week here and is so tiring. I challenge you to do my 2 hour (each way) commute on a bike for more than a week. Happy to give you the route if you want to try it! And if you want me to just live closer to work, that’s fine too: please double my salary to enable that and I’ll get rid of my car.
Be careful, the standard response to that is "you should drastically change your lifestyle, uproot your family, and do financially irresponsible things in order to move closer to work so you can bike there". Also so, so tiring.