Consider going back now that you have given them that scathing Yelp review. That way you'll be able to have better steaks and feel vindicated. Heck, dump on them on Google too, and write to the local newspaper just before V day (old people read those letters!). If you have any impact it will at least be to have fewer competitors for a table. Heck, pay money to have them given bad reviews, it's really cheap.

Yes I'm being tongue in cheek here, but try not to cut off your nose to spite your face.

V day and M day are the absolute worst times to go out for dinner, anywhere half decent is full and the kitchen is super stressed so they have reduced menus that are easier to cook (not possible with steak...). If you must go, you have to speak to the manager beforehand, tell them how important this is, remind them you come often, get a specific table, etc.