WordPress.com is not as trivial as you might think http://en.wordpress.com/stats/
Certainly it's just a matter of scaling once you hit a certain level of volume, you just have to be able to bring more servers online into the grid.
Scaling from 10,000 users to 1 million is probably very hard.
Scaling from 1 million to 100 million, well you better have a pattern down that works with easy hardware replication (like google does).