> But don't they already have your money by then? They don't care if you stop chatting within their platform since you've already paid

I suppose so, if you pay for it, most of them are free. But that's besides the point, I just had a different experience from most people here, after 4-5 different housekeepers, I gave up and ended doing the work myself. So in that aspect, my experience has been the same as online dating.