> Or such thing as miss of a message. For example, actor A starts in state S1(A) and waits for message M1 to switch to state S2(A) where it will wait for M2. But actor B sends messages to A in reverse order: M2, then M1. If message M2 is not deferred by A, then M2 will be ignored by A in S1(A), then A switches to S2(A) and will wait for M2, but that message won't go to it.
once message delivery is guaranteed to be in-order and lossless, then for the above scenario the issue is 'obviously' on the sender side. it can be easily solved with timers where 'A' expects to move from state-a to state-b in say 'n' seconds after startup etc.