I'm not recommending USO or oil itself as an investment, and I agree that you will be paying money to the ETF manager if you get involved in it.
But I don't agree that USO is _more_ dangerous for a casual trader to trade than oil futures, for the reasons I mentioned.
Removing the overall fluctuations of the oil market, the relative problem with ETFs is that they bleed away value over time. That's a real issue, but I wouldn't compare that to juggling a live hand grenade.
Edit: you did not say it was more dangerous, my mistake. I do think that ETFs are less dangerous, for the reasons I mentioned.