I personally find Elixir's functional programming is easier, because there are fewer things you have to deal with than object oriented. There are basically no constructs in Elixir that you don't have out of the box in an OO language like Javascript or Python. You just have to deal with that you can't do things like assign variables in if statements (you just have to explicitly export them) and you don't have for loops.
Having said that, Enum.map and Enum.reduce are really hard to get used to and can be an obstacle in terms of "why can't I do this thing that is so easy in X".
In the long run, once you get used to reading them (which honestly took me about 4-5 months, I have like 20+ years of programming experience) I think they are easier because they are declarative -- you can see exactly what is happening to each piece of your list and in the case of reduce, what state is being passed through each iteration.
For loops are far more unstructured, literally anything in any of your parent scopes could be what you're keeping track of through iterations, which means, your mistake surface area is much much higher. The same goes for getting used to "if statements that export values" but, maybe, less dramatically.
I know this is difficult to hear since you gave up, but I promise you if you push through it, eventually it will feel like writing elixir is "programming with training wheels on" you can do crazy hard things without worrying about large classes of logical and structural programming errors. Hope you come back to it!
