What do we want to deploy, okay, stop monitoring/alerts, okay, flip the load balancer, install/copy/replace the image/binary, restart it, flip LB, do the other node(s), keep flipping monitoring/alerts, okay, do we need to do something else? Run DB schema change scripts? Oh fuck we forgot to do the backup before that!
Also now we haven't started that dependent service, and so we have to rollback, fast, okay, screw the alerts, and the LB, just rollback all at once.
And sure, all this can be scripted, run from a laptop. But k8s is basically that.
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And we get distributedness very fast, as soon as you have 2+ components that manage state you need to think about consistency. Even a simple cache is always problematic (as we all know how the cache invalidation joke).
Sure, going all in on microservices just because is a bad idea. Similarly k8s is not for everyone, and running DBs on k8s isn't either.
But, the state of the art is getting there. (eg the crunchydata postgresql operator for k8s.)
