If you've ever had a mouth injury that inhibits talking, or been in a foreign environment where your speech is totally useless, it can be very stressful to be unable to communicate. I think the couple should consider learning some of the basics ahead of time, so that communication is possible without typing or any other apparatus.
Considering post-surgery recovery window, I'd want to be able to express very basic things like:
I am comfortable
I am in pain
I am hungry
I am nauseated
I need to urinate/defecate
I want to rest
I love you
When will you return
etc. I might suggest trying to boil down one or two inside-joke kinds of phrases as well, to be able to lift each others spirits in private or intimate way.