https://slatestarcodex.com/2014/05/23/ssc-gives-a-graduation...
The only people I’ve seen quibble over this matter is English language teachers in school.
You only hear it from English teachers because they're the only ones who want to help you. When you don't know the difference between an adjective and past participle in your cover letter or article, you just look a little less competent. Nobody is going to respond to help you out.
My point is, even though getting it "wrong" is very common, this grammatical rule is still far from dead in practice, and so simply offering the correction doesn't necessarily mean the person is being purely pedantic.
Of course this is all to do with "me" vs "I". I agree the strict order of the nouns is indeed almost dead in practice.
I’m trying not to quibble over language — just wanted to note that this is a well-documented phenomenon with a fancy name (I’m not an English teacher).
[1]: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hypercorrection
Edit: I clarified what I meant to say. Earlier it said “more correct” rather than “less/more” correct.