What is wrong with you? I never said any of that. You keep cherry picking half-statements and then taking them out of context.
I did not need to ask other people how to solve a problem. That is a silly interpretation of what I wrote. You are willfully pretending ignorance of how to read and have a conversation.
Pontificate: "express one's opinions in a way considered annoyingly pompous and dogmatic." Yes, you really do need to stop pontificating.
I hope you find happiness.