> Any two systems interacting will cause the collapse.

I suppose that means if a photon, say, is reflected by a mirror, that should collapse its wave function and any measurements after that should not have any effect on it?

Maybe it should be qualified what kind of interaction collapses wave function?

> I'm a software developer, not a quantum physicist.

Great, I’m not a quantum physicist either—yet here we are, talking about quantum physics!

That’s not what Schroedinger’s equation says though, it can combine the wave functions of two quantum systems, say a particle and a force, and show how they evolve with no problem, in fact that literally what it does. Quantum mechanics simply doesn’t have a complete account of collapse to a specific state.