I'll answer this question as I understand it, but I only took four lectures of General Relativity before I gave it up in favour of computability and logic, so if there is a more intuitive and/or less wrong answer out there, please correct me.
Intuitive answer: the curve is indeed very gentle, and (e.g.) light will be deflected only very slightly by the curvature; but the ball is moving for a couple of seconds, and that's an eternity. On human scales, the time dimension is much "bigger" than the space dimensions (we're quite big in the time dimension and quite small in the spatial dimensions); the ball moves only a small distance through space but a very large distance through time, amounting to a big distance in spacetime, and so the slight curvature has a bigger effect than you might expect.
> under the laws of gravity, a parabola is an impossible shape for an object that's gravitationally bound to the Earth. The math simply doesn't work out. If we could design a precise enough experiment, we'd measure that projectiles on Earth make tiny deviations from the predicted parabolic path we all derived in class: microscopic on the scale of a human, but still significant. Instead, objects thrown on Earth trace out an elliptical orbit similar to the Moon.
[1] https://www.forbes.com/sites/startswithabang/2020/03/12/we-a...
So if you want to be really pedantic, it's never an ellipse because the Earth is not a point mass. It would be equivalent to a point mass if the Earth were a perfect sphere of uniform density, but it isn't. In reality it's a potato like mass blob that's approximated by what geodesists call the "geoid". So in order of approximations the path of a ball thrown on earth is a parabola -> ellipse -> numerical integration of 6-dof initial conditions and spherical harmonics approximation of the earth gravity field.
This is really interesting, and it made me wonder how to convert between space and time. I mean, one meter up is equivalent in magnitude to one meter forward, is equivalent to one meter to the right. Is _c_ the conversion between space and time? In other words, is 300 million meters equivalent in magnitude to one second of time?
dist^2 = (c * seconds)^2 - meters^2
But even more important, if light beams are reversible under relativity (reflected off a mirror they will backtrack the same path) then light can not enter a black hole because its reversed path could allow it a way out. But then there's that whole thing of objects falling in appear to slow and stop as they approach the event horizon, so maybe light doesnt enter after all.
My conclusion is that you cant really understand it without serious study of under someone who already gets it.
The faster you go, the less you travel through time. Thus, if the ball were travelling at the speed of light, it would not travel through time either and would follow the same path as light.
Using quotes since terms are more metaphorical than exact.
Because they're following different straight lines in spacetime. Roughly speaking, if you pick a point in space and a particular direction in space from that point, there is a continuous infinity of possible straight lines in spacetime that point in that direction in space. One endpoint of that continuous infinity is the worldline of a light ray. The ball's path is somewhere in the middle of that continuous infinity.
From the reference of the outside observer the light emitted at the event horizon will forever try to leave it, but as spacetime itself casdades into the hole at the speed of light (at the horizon) this light will get redshifted until you can't see it anymore. This doesn't mean that the light you shoot into the hole never reaches the singularity. It just means that the light emitted at the event horizon will struggle forever to get out of the insane warp. Think about this: if you're walking on a conveyor belt with a constant speed `n` in the opposite direction and the belt itself is moving with a constant speed `n` you'll never make progress. This is what happens at the event horizon.
Light beams are not reversible. If you use a mirror they won't travel back in time, they will just change course. They will never go back in time.
Because light is much faster. Throw a ball at the speed of light and you will see exactly the same path.
Lets say you shoot rifles with different calibers. Each time the bullet takes one second to hit the ground but the faster bullets travel longer distances. Light is so fast it escapes from the planet but if the planet were big enough even light would hit the ground like a bullet.
The line is only straight in spacetime, not in space.
The important thing is that gravitation is a distortion in space-_time_, which is way trickier to model as a rubber sheet because you end up with one dimension of space and one of time. If you distort _those_ (also, they don't distort quite like a ball-in-a-rubber-sheet), you can get the results of a ball being thrown up. It's also possible to visualize this for 2 spatial dimensions with a distorted 3d space, but tricky.
It’s also why I despise the popular portrayal of space time curvature. It looks at space in isolation rather than space time as a whole, and provides no intuition as to why objects traveling at different speeds follow different trajectories.
FWIW I think that in general it is better to just teach people that gravity is an acceleration in classical spacetime (as opposed to a force or curvature). It is simply too hard to create intuition for laymen around minkowskian spacetime, and even harder for curved minkowskian spacetime.
That is a valid path for the light to follow, hypothetically.
But if that's what the light was doing, you wouldn't see it. You can only see things when light enters your eyes.
I think what you may be noticing is that, as you reduce the tick frequency of a newtonian physics simulation, parabolas become less accurate as integration error accumulates.
Alternatively, you can think of everything that could impact you as something of a now light cone. The second view has the universe existing as a 3D surface in 4D space time which means objects have a temporal width for each observer. That can be a really useful mathematical model.
PS: Edited the above several times for clarity.
—Kurt Vonnegut, Slaughterhouse-Five
The best way to picture it is via Minkowski diagrams, you can find some neat visualizations in the wikipedia article: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Relativity_of_simultaneity
Simply picture an extended object in the x direction, Lorentz transformations are going to rotate it slightly in the time direction causing it to become extended in the time direction.
[1] If you take it to the extreme you may consider that different parts of your body move with respect to each other and thus they are not in the same reference frame. In which case, not even with respect to yourself are totally "flat" in the time direction.
299,792,458m is for the distance traveled by light in one second. The -1m is for the distance between your feet.
That's just another way of describing the total time you exist.
My intuitive response to your intuitive explanation: This ball is moving through spacetime relative to the earth, which is in turn also moving through spacetime relative to the sun - and so light is being deflected off of this ball at each point in its position in spacetime relative to the sun for much longer than light is being deflected off of this ball at each point in its position in spacetime relative to the earth - have I got that right?
Light is a hitman Perpetual driveby shooter Never missing As we dance through the night
Probably not, because "the sun" appears in your response. If you're watching a ball move on Earth, the sun is an irrelevant variable.
Your answer is basically the one given in an early chapter of Misner, Thorne, and Wheeler, which is one of the classic General Relativity textbooks.
So you can change your acceleration through the time dimension of spacetime, by dint of changing your acceleration in the spatial ones.
But because massive objects also cannot move as fast as photons, we're probably both saying the same thing from two different perspectives.
I suspect that the answer is that this is a false comparison.
Air resistance, wind, and horizonal acceleration. Over long vertical distances, these perturbations in the x-axis cause an arc. Nothing to do with general relativity.
Also, like everything else in physics: it depends how you observe it.
For instance, electromagnetism comes from the curvature of a U(1) bundle over space time, the (local) U(1) symmetry yields electromagnetic interactions. For gravity the symmetry is the (local) Pointcaré (SO(1,3) + translations) symmetry and curvature of spacetime itself.
Also gravity on Earth (weak gravitational field) is mostly curvature of time, namely the spacelike curvature can be ignored, and the g_{00} component of the metric can be seen a a gravitational potential. see p 80 of this:
However, that concept is not available in arbitrary manifolds, you need additional structure: The covariant connection, which allows you to parallel transport velocity vectors, enabling you to define the concept of straight lines (autoparallels, which will be geodesics if the connection is 'metric').
According to general relativity, gravity hooks into that. So from that perspective, the gravitational force on a test particle will be a consequence of (the generalization of) the first law instead of the second one, making it into a pseudo-force like the Coriolis force.
but if you introduce a derivative which is covariant under diffeomorphisms and u(1) transformations
D = d + \omega + A
you see that gravitation (connection \omega) enters on a somewhat same footing as the electromagnetic potential (A). there are nuances ofc, but the view (force/curvature) depends from where you're looking.
also in real life particles don't real exist... they're excitations in a field
1) it still somehow works like other fundamental forces since it derives from asking invariance under a local symmetry group
2) it is different from other forces since the symmetry group associated to it is directly symmetries of space-time (rather than some internal U(1) vector bundle like maxwell or SU(3) nuclear strong force)
3) in weak fields like on earth it mostly reduces to a conservative force driven by a gravitation potential (what you experience while climbing a mountain)
3 bis) like (mostly) anything in physics there is a duality i.e. there are regimes where you can consider it as a force, and there are regimes where you cant.
read the textbook, i know it's a 1000 pages but it's a great introduction :)
Also in the paper:
"In a certain sense the main effect of curvature (or gravity) is that initially paralleltrajectories of freely falling non-interacting particles(dust, pebbles,. . . ) do not remainparallel, i.e. that gravity is an attractive force that has the tendency to focus matter."
Maybe don't immediately look for ways to discredit someone's contribution to the discourse without examining all of the content they have shared?
Like Sean Carroll said in the Veritassium video about the "many worlds" [1], there's no such such thing as "pressure", it is just the interaction of fluid molecules. For practical purposes though, it is best described as a scalar called "pressure".
"best described as not a force" is not the same statement as "is not a force".
In physics and mathematics there can be multiple different, complementarity descriptions of the same thing. In fact, if you can reach the same result by two very different routes that seems to make it more robust.
A simple example to understand how perspective can alter reality is to imagine being a point floating in a 3-D space where you are able to see the X-Y-Z axes. Now, imagine tracing (0,0,0) when you are at (500,500,500). Trivial.
Now, trace (0,0,10^100). That is a huge Z-line you would say. This is the side view.
Now, move to (0,0,10^100) from (500,500,500). This is the top view. What do you see?
Another example: When viewed from perpendicular to X-Y plane, a circular motion on X-Y plane looks properly circular.
When the same motion is viewed standing far away on the X-axis, the motion resembles an oscillation.
Same motion, different perspectives, seemingly different results.
Isn't gravity an acceleration, and weight a force? Otherwise gravity would accelerate heavier objects more slowly.
Gravity is the natural phenomena, or experimental observation, whereby bodies with mass appear to gravitate towards each other. One model and explanation of this phenomena is Newton's Law of Gravity used within the framework of Newton's dynamics (or laws of motion). The Law claims that gravity is a force, with a very specific formula we are all aware of.
If you ignore Newton's third law (about action-reaction pairs) for the gravitational phenomena of small bodies near a planet, and assume that the planet doesn't move at all, then we call the force on the small body its weight.
Now, returning to your question, in daily lingo, physicists use the word gravity to refer to the phenomena, the force law, or the weight. You have ascertain from context. In summary, gravity is a force is a perfectly valid and understandable statement within the slang of physics.
[0] with the exception of light, which is very light[1], but made of light particles rather than light particles.
[1] Homographs ahoy
F = - q * d\phi/dx
where q is the electric charge
now suppose you're in a gravitational potential \phi_g, the force is
F_g = - m * d\phi_g/dz
where m is the mass. as you can see it's like the newton equation, so yes looks like an acceleration :)
Weight is the force a body exerts on its support.
Force of gravity is a force exerted by each body in a system onto every other body.
The 'two spheres in a box' experiment for testing the gravitational constant has no relative velocity at all, so how could 'curved space' describe the force between them?
This affects our understanding of forces: Accelerations live in the double tangent bundle, which gets split into a horizontal and vertical part by the connection. The horizontal part is the contribution by inertia, yielding pseudo-forces (including gravity according to GR). The vertical part is due to non-inertial forces.
How this can be connected to gravity I do not exactly know. I suppose the change in the refractive index of the water is akin to g_{00} component of the Riemann metric, since it produces a compensating change in the wave vector at that point. Whether you could imagine GR consistently in terms of changes in the local speed of light a.k.a. changes in the permittivity of free space, again, I do not know.
(Thanks for the effort, though, it might just be me, in the end I changed profession for a reason)
I was replying to the headline: 'umm, yes and no...'
However, when I've graduated I don't think I would ever call myself a physicist like yourself unless I actually went on to do research in physics as a career, which likely means following the traditional academic path of doing a PhD (since I'm not Freeman Dyson).
Sorry for the nitpick but such titles should be earned don't you think?
the key principle of general relativity is the equivalance principle: there is no (local) way to tell if you're being accelerated (in a spaceship for instance) or in a gravitational field. in other terms the inertial mass is the same as the gravitational mass.
this, and lorentz invariance, yields general relativity almost uniquely, so it's a very strong principle.
so yes, in some sense gravitation shift the notion of "inertial frame of reference"
Why does the existence of a transformation that makes movement under a supposed force actually follow a straight line mean it's not really a force? For the other forces (e.g. electromagnetism) can we say that there's _no way_ to exhibit a transformation that causes charged particles travel on "straight" lines?
At around the time of Newton, what we now call physics changed from being something based in an ontology—a theory of what the world was made of to explain why it worked a certain way—into something mathematised where the equations accurately predict the behaviour of the world but there is no ontology other than that the universe is a universe where those equations hold. Modern physics still fundamentally works this way (see Maxwell’s equations, quantum physics, etc). Compare to, for example, Descartes with his theory of corpuscles and (totally wrong) billiard ball mechanics, or just about any other ontology from before him.
Interestingly, I could only find one other reference to that phrase[1]:
One 18th century natural philosopher wrote that forces were incomprehensible but "time has domesticated them."
[1] Why do we study geometry https://www.dpmms.cam.ac.uk/~piers/F-I-G_opening_ppr.pdf
So, the definition of a force as something that causes an object to change its movement from a "straight line" comes to us from Newton's laws.
> Why does the existence of a transformation that makes movement under a supposed force actually follow a straight line mean it's not really a force?
It's not just the fact that the transformation exists that means we don't really consider gravity to be a force. It's that the transformation exists, and provides useful predictions about the universe that turn out to be backed by experiment.
Under the theory of general relativity gravity isn't a force, because the fundamental premises of general relativity assume that gravity is actually a distortion of spacetime caused by mass.
We say that "gravity" isn't a force simply because the predictions made by general relativity have been validated by a number of experimental observations—at least on the macro scale.
> For the other forces (e.g. electromagnetism) can we say that there's _no way_ to exhibit a transformation that causes charged particles travel on "straight" lines?
I'm certainly not an expert, so I can't really comment on this. My best guess is that there doesn't exist any such transformation that causes charged particles to travel on "straight" lines that makes experimental predictions as well as our current scientific theories.
That seems kinda odd. What exactly would provide this difference? How is magnetism different from gravity? Is it that gravity doesn't have a mass, but magnetic fields do?
However, there are a lot of parallels between electromagnetism and relativity! Quite often relativity effects are introduced with an EM analogy, e.g. gravitational waves (which have polarisation) and electromagnetic waves ie photons (which also have polarisation). Note though it really is an analogy - they are fundamentally different things in both reality and mathematical form.
String theory tries to do the same thing with other forces; so it's not clear whether there's such a transformation. Forces are technically simpler than embedding extra dimensions that there are no evidence for.
Gravity is peculiar in that there is only one type of charge and it's exactly equal to the inertia quantity. If you try to do something similar to the other forces, you'll get really complicated models, with hidden dimensions and things that don't interact the same way with them.
When you accelerate or decelerate in a vehicle, you feel it. But when you jump out of a plane and accelerate towards the ground, you don't feel a force.
Noticing this fact was a big part of what led Einstein to his equivalence principle and General Relativity.
It depends a bit how you define words like real.
Not that I'm afraid of math, I just don't feel like I need to see equations when it's a concept that is being explained rather than how to numerically calculate something. Math helps me as much as a code implementation does to explain the concept of a variable: I can observe its behavior but it doesn't necessarily teach me the concept.
Of course, you are going to tell me that the earth is not inflating, obviously, because it is still the same size after so many years.
But here is the trick: the earth is inflating at the same rate as spacetime contracts. If the earth didn't inflate, the contraction of spacetime would have collapsed it into a black hole.
Note: It is related to Einstein's elevator thought experiment. Here, the inflating earth replaces the rocket powered elevator.
Note 2: If the idea of an inflating earth bothers you, I suggest you start considering that the earth is flat, seriously! Flat Earthers took Einstein's thought experiment quite literally and consider the Earth to be a disk that is continuously accelerated upwards. And in fact, if free fall trajectories were parabolic, that would be the correct explanations. In reality, because the earth is not flat, free fall trajectories are elliptic, though it is only apparent on a large scale.
The thing is, I watched the French version and I didn't know an English version existed, that's why I didn't post it here, French speakers are, I believe, a minority.
And BTW, the French channel has an 8 part explanation of the maths behind general relativity that is the best I have ever seen. It is on a level above most pop science video since it actually shows the equations, tensors, etc... but the explanations are actually quite accessible.
Matter continuously destroys spacetime at its location, sucking in the fabric of the universe.
The Universe isn't expanding; matter is shrinking. Light isn't redshifted on the way to us, it's just that our sensors are getting smaller relative to the unmodified wavelength of light.
Indeed; light is blue-shifted as its source is on its way to us (and is red-shifted as its source is on its way away from us).
Is there any way to distinguish these? Surely it depends on who's point of view you're looking from
The apple doesn't curve space-time as much as the earth does.
Because both terms of the equation affect one another, solving it is complicated but here, the result is that spacetime contracts to the center of the earth.
Are they incompatible viewpoints, or just different perspectives on the same thing? (E.g. are gravitons hypothesized to disappear depending on frame of reference?)
I'm assuming they're incompatible (that we need the theory of everything [2] to reconcile them) but would love to know if there's something I'm missing.
Interestingly the Yang-Mills equations (used in quantum mechanics) and the Einstein-Hilbert action (used in general relativity) are pretty much identical if you use general enough mathematics.
As a brief example, consider two objects in downwards free fall toward the centre of some massive object. Since they head towards the centre, in a free falling frame the two objects actually get closer to each other until they collide as they reach the centre.
This is known as the tidal effect of gravity and is the actual physical content of general relativity. This effect can be shown to be obtained by an appropriate curvature of spacetime which itself can be shown to be related to the stress-energy of matter inhabiting spacetime.
I always thought that was a nice way to drop one dimension down to get the intuition. To the metaphorical 2D ant they see two friends attracted to/falling towards each other, but they are going in a straight line on a curved surface and there are no forces at play.
You can call both a force in the generic dictionary definition of force. Because obviously it's crazy that something can be so powerful as to distort spacetime itself. But gravity wouldn't be a force in the Newton sense of being something that affects the acceleration of an object.
I had never visualized it this way in my head before, and it all makes a lot more sense now. Highly recommend!
Reminded me of the arguments still going on about ‘whether this is true or not’ in the sense that the mathematics is painting this more accurate picture than what Newton’s math painted, but the math can’t explain most of the universe’s lack of observable mass/energy, so there might be some higher level of mathematics that describes a different but ‘more true’ state of events.
So some flat earth arguments are actually correct if general relativity is correct, namely that gravity is an illusion and that the real reason we are stuck to the earth is that the earth is accelerating toward us at 9.8 m/s^2
Light always travels in straight lines. Even when light is experiencing a gravitational lensing and looks to us from earth that it's bending around a star or whatever, from the perspective of the light beam itself, it's moving in a straight line. It's entire reference frame is bent compared to ours (relativity) but nonetheless the correct view is that the light is still moving 'straight' in it's own reference frame.
Also if the light wasn't moving straight that would mean it's changing direction, which is the same as an acceleration, and a beam of light traveling thru a gravitational field feels no acceleration, because it's not accelerating. Again from this view you can say light is moving straight and experiencing no acceleration, just like an object in free-fall doesn't 'feel' any acceleration, even though they are accelerating from the perspective of some other reference frame other than it's own.
You could have both a deviation (i.e tangential acceleration) and a constant speed.
One bearded sage concluded: there's no motion.
Without a word, another walked before him.
He couldn’t answer better; all adored him
And all agreed that he disproved that notion.
But one can see it all in a different light,
For me, another funny thought comes into play:
We watch the sun move all throughout the day
And yet the stubborn Galileo had it right.
Both are right, in short. We observe parabolas and we are right counting on them - we have great successful experience using these prediction. GR theory predicts lines, they are right too, but in different context.
As evidence: which object feels a force on it?
You can feel the force the ground continually pushes up at you. The ground is accelerating you up. The falling object is completely idle in its inertial frame and feels nothing.
Imagine a bowling ball and a marble at rest from your perspective, and an apparatus with a pair of pneumatic guns that eject pistons with the same precisely-calibrated amount of force. You arrange the guns so that they will hit the marble and the bowling ball at the same moment, and you trigger them together. The marble and the bowling ball are hit at the same time by the same amount of force. The marble, being much lighter takes off much faster than the bowling ball.
Now take the same marble and bowling ball to a place a mile above the moon (so that there is no confounding atmosphere to complicate things) and release them next to one another at the same moment.
If gravity is a force, then we should expect that the marble will fall much faster than the bowling ball, because the same force is acting on two different masses; the lighter mass should be accelerated more, just as it was when the source of the force was the pneumatic gun. F = ma, after all. If the force is the same and the mass is less, then the acceleration must be more.
That's not what happens, though. The marble and the bowling ball fall together at the same accelerating rate.
Gravity acts like an acceleration, not a force.
Lo these many years ago when I was an undergraduate physics student, my advisor told me that we should say "the force due to gravity", not "the force of gravity".
In every day colloquial speech it doesn't matter, of course.
Play with the accelaration to see some spooky seemingly faster-than-light movement.
The title says "gravity is not a force". In the article's perspective, why does a kitchen scale report a higher number when I place an object on it?
(In my perspective there is gravitational attraction between the object on the scale and the rest of the Earth, and the the scale, assuming it is "level" (set perpendicular to the direction of gravitation toward the center of the Earth) reports the magnitude of that attraction.)
If gravity isn't a force, then when the object and Earth are not in freefall or moving, what does the kitchen scale measure?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cb_PCuv0vcY&feature=emb_logo
Would that mean electromagnetism is not a force either?
What is the difference between the two that makes one a force and one not a force?
The indicator that gravity is special is the fact that 'inertial mass' and 'gravitational mass' are the same thing.
Light is without mass, but not without energy. That energy causes what you could describe as "propulsion". Even the slightest bit of propulsion in the emptiness of space will cause matter to move around.
It's like light being a big ladle. And using that ladle to spin the water + tiny floating objects in a bath. They will all affect one another until the heat death of the bath occurs and all life grinds to a halt.
Could this be named more correctly: Gravity is not a force – free-fall hyperbolas are straight lines in spacetime (timhutton.github.io) ?
- parabola if you assume flat&infinite ground,
- ellipsis if you assume a spherical planet (an ellipsis is crossing the planet's surface).
This is Newton, not GR.
I'm trying to understand what is meant by this. When I drop an item on the floor it goes there in a straight line, not a parabola. Same if I drop something from a helicopter. Obviously I'm missing something here. Can someone with more insight ELI5 this to me please?
That could be a physical dimension, such as throwing a ball to your friend across the room and plotting x vs y. Or even plotting the height of the ball against time.
consider the x-axis of this image the distance between you and your friend, or time.
but the real question is: can you counter your own arguments? Because that's where absolutely fascinating science happens.
(also nice engineering on the physical "space time stretcher" he built)
I understood it rationally before, but only with this video it also feels right.
The model shown is for 1D space and 1D time, and this 2D spacetime is curved, remaining 2D. Can you though show us a 3D model of curved 2D spacetime? Maybe as a rotatable, scaleable 3D scene, where more complex phenomena, like planetary motion around a star, would be possible to show?
But a person’s experience should always be the same, no matter what reference they are in. They will perceive time as passing at the same rate in all environments, but it will be different from people in other environments.
Caveat: IANA physicist, and this is not physics advice.
You would age about the same as you would in microgravity. You could get closer and closer approximations by going into Earth orbit, solar orbit, and galactic orbit. Each approximation has less gravity, so time would pass slightly slower relative to an Earthly observer at each step, but the effect diminishes.
https://www.audible.com/pd/Black-Holes-Tides-and-Curved-Spac...
I want left to be 0 frame acceleration and left to be backwards in time. I kind of also want the graphs to be reverse order too, but I get why it's all presented this way. :)
I won't push my luck by pretending to understand how this changes when your spatial velocity is nontrivial (intuitively I feel like it should not even possible to differentiate between spatial and temporal components except relative to your own reference frame, but I could easily be wrong there). But in the case you describe it seems pretty clear.
Does this just mean to say that if we saw things distorted with an outward curve, then something that is moving in a curve would look to be moving in a straight line?
And what's the point of such an observation?
In f = m * a, for objects falling from sky, it will be f = m * g where g is gravity, m is mass & f is force
Sorry, I think I am missing the point of the article.
Another good video to visualize GR is this by ScienceClic: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wrwgIjBUYVc
How is gravity like a force at all, even in Newtonian physics? It seems like mismatched units. Gravity is an acceleration, not a force. F=ma, right? So if gravity were a force, it would produce an acceleration that was dependent on the mass, and it doesn't, so it seems to me like the only sense in which gravity is a force is if you define force as "something you can't see that makes things move", which is a pretty useless definition.
For two different objects at the same point in the same gravitational field, the difference in gravitational force due to their differing mass exactly cancels out the difference in acceleration due to their differing mass, so they both accelerate at the same rate.
Since gravity acts in a magnitude directly proportional to the mass being acted upon, it just so happens that it manifests as an acceleration since the mass cancels out, unlike EM where acceleration due to charge does not cancel out the mass.
An artifact of rotating coordinate frames in one, the curvature of spacetime in the other
https://www.diffen.com/difference/Centrifugal_Force_vs_Centr...
It's not a fundamental problem, nobody has abandoned Maxwell's equations for EM except for the most specific cases, but it's a similar case.
There's probably a better explanation than just "distortion of space time" which is a great way of viewing it, but it's a bit of a stretch (pun intended)
F means force. Gravity is a type of acceleration, not a force without being multiplied by a mass!
I tried to explain it with words, but I guess the images are worth more than I could write..
Likewise I guess for the 1D gravity well case, where a sine wave would become a straight line in spacetime.
[0] https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XRr1kaXKBsU&t=504 (Veritasium on Youtube: Why Gravity is NOT a Force @ 8:24)