E.g. "arr.customlyFiltered()" is easy to do. Or even easier "arr.filter(myCustomFilter)". If something doesn't work out for you, please feel free to use e.g. scalafiddle.io and make it example, then you will be helped! :)
Scala is indeed not a high performant language. It is as fast as Java and compiles as fast as Java if you only use Java's features. However, then why use Scala in the beginning?
Scala is great for writing very maintainable and reusable code, especially with a big team and a lot of business logic. It is also great to "glue" things together like you can do it with Python. For these things it has more than sufficient performance in my opinion.