Young people make mistakes. Young suddenly-rich successful people will often make bad decisions.
Hating on Steve Jobs for something he has done previously when he was young and stupid makes as much sense as hating on Mark Zuckerburg as a 19-year-old calling Facebook users "dumb fucks".
But no. You're right. I'm sure the CEOs who have no vision or rigid beliefs are better. I'm sure that those that will change absolutely anything - selling PCs with not enough memory to handle an Operating System or putting Flash onto products that simply can't support them and crash - to simply sell more products are better.
We're not beautifying the man. We're simply giving him his deserved compliments in an industry where he's still a moral rarity.