In a better world, the soviets would have done all the hard work to introduce minor things like school for girls[1] to afghanistan in the early eighties, and then it would have gone capitalist along with the rest of the ex-soviet -stans, nearly bloodlessly, in the early nineties.
Help afghanis, yes. Help the taliban? That was a poor, even a foreseeably poor, decision.
[1] for an idea of the variation in that part of asia, compare music videos from tajikistan and from iran, for example...