It seems like there may be value in writing up a template for vulnerability comms:
“Hi folks, a new vulnerability has been disclosed (CVE-####-####). We’ve assessed this vulnerability, and it doesn’t affect our infrastructure because [we don’t use the affected software|we don’t use the vulnerable configuration|the vulnerability is mitigated by other security controls].”
If the worst impact of naming vulnerabilities is that security-related technical staff have to politely decline a couple meeting invites, I’m going to consider the practice an overall win.