All three languages are different enough that depending on the language you use it fundamentally alters your database architecture to better fit the mechanics of the language. Databases have a very high levels of internal complexity naturally, so there is a strong incentive to align the design with what the language can express without adding substantially more complexity.

I work on database engines and the impact of language choice on the design, architecture, and implementation of database engines is very evident. In the specific case of database engines, these differences in design can have a very large performance impact.