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0 pointspaulryanrogers5y ago0 comments

> I gave my family an ultimatum and being the tech savvy one they jumped to Signal

Not all families respond well to ultimatums.

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On that note, if my family isn't willing to install another application and spend 5 minutes wrapping their head around how to use it - well, I guess I just accurately defined the value of our relationship.

paulryanrogersOP5y ago

From their point of view it may appear you value your communication preferences more than the relationship

BeetleB5y ago

> well, I guess I just accurately defined the value of our relationship.

While that is true, what you have not accurately determined is why that value is low, and how much of that is your doing vs theirs.

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