It can become very hard to converge with such a person. They may argue too much for ideas that are not that good. They may not understand the alternatives too well. Their scope of knowledge may be limited.
Trying to converge "politely" can take way too long. And even so, they may end up accepting the alternatives grudgingly.
Just in case I sound condescending - I realize that in some contexts I myself may be this person.
How do you folks handle this?
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I am such an arrogant person, so here's how to deal with me: let me have my
way, and gradually wean yourself off any projects involving me. Self-deluded
know-it-all's like myself do not rise within the ranks and get pigeonholed.
In the best possible case, we get fired, and that's what happened to me.
Still trying to figure out what to do with my life.
Yes, worked with a few similar and in the best situation they get moved on. However, i and all my then colleagues, I remember, were wuite shocked , literally, when one of the worst offenders I had ever worked with came back from a seriously observational management training course, the ones were they film your every interaction and then criticize you openly in groups, well, he cakes back a changed person, suddenly Mr nice guy and Mr positive in all ways, and he remained such for as long as I’ve known him since, seriously unbelievable, but those of us that witnessed that know it to be so. So, there always hope, even for the worst!
But that won't help an emormous ego which may activate mental defence mechanisms. I believe we all have an internal self image that's a best version of ourselves. Some more than others.
