How do you make graphs that make sense of your various microservices? How do you make sure code doesn't get stale/all versions are compatible/rolling back code doesn't take out your website? How do you do capacity planning? How are service specific configurations done? How does service discovery work? How do you troubleshoot these systems? How do you document these systems? How do you onboard new people to these systems? What about setting up integration testing? Build systems? Repositories? Oncall? What happens when a single dev spins up a microservice and they quit? What happens when a new dev wants to create a new service in the latest greatest language? What happens when you want to share a piece of business logic of some sort? What about creating canaries for all these services? What about artifact management/versioning?
What about when your microservice becomes monolithic?
Complexity is complexity no matter where it exists. Microservices are an exchange of one complexity for another. Building modular software is a reduction of complexity. A microservice that has business logic mixed with server logic is still going to suffer from being brittle.