> Erlang without a network and distribution is going to be more resilient than Erlang with a network.
I doubt that this is supposed to be true. Erlang is based on the idea of isolated processes and transactions - it's fundamental to Armstrong's thesis, which means being on a network shouldn't change how your code is built or designed.
Maybe it ends up being true, because you add more actual failures (but not more failure cases). That's fine. In Erlang that's the case. I wouldn't call that resiliency though, the resiliency is the same - uptime, sure, could be lower.
What about in other languages that don't model systems this way? Where mutable state can be shared? Where exceptions can crop up, and you don't know how to roll back state because it's been mutated?
In a system where you have a network boundary, and if you follow Microservice architecture you're given patterns to deal with many others.
It's not a silver bullet. Just splitting code across a network boundary won't magically make it better. But isolating state is a powerful way to improve resiliency if you leverage it properly (, which is what Microservice architecture intends).
You could also use immutable values and all sorts of other things to help get that isolation of state. There's lots of ways to write resilient software.