> Bangladeshis spent the second half of the twentieth century having about 6 kids each
This is not true. That was true in 1950, started to drop in 1970. Now it is 2.04 kid per woman. And when you compare contemporary consumption of Danes, you have to compare it with contemporary consumption of Bangladeshis.
Currently, the fertility rates are 1.73 vs 2.04 kid per woman. Which is much smaller difference.