I never understand why long commutes aren't "Pants On Fire" emergencies for people. If you're driving two hours
every day, and not spending all your free time wondering how you can either change jobs or change housing, well, it's a finite life that you're pissing away.
I'm certain that there will be an outpouring of hundreds of reasons why people cannot move, and I'm sure all of those reasons have merit. But it doesn't change the fact that long commutes are a huge detriment to work/life balance.